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Burned Haystack Dating Method

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The Burned Haystack Dating Method is a dating method to help women find more success with their online dating lives. It was created by writer and professor Jennie Young.[1] The method has clear "rules" for using dating apps to "burn the haystack," i.e., find the proper dating match.[1]

The Method

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The method is called the 10-rule Burned Haystack Method.[2][3]

Block to burn

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One of the method's perhaps most controversial rules is known as, "Block to burn." Meaning, if you do not wish to meet a person for a potential date you block them on the app to avoid seeing their profile again.[2]

Creator Jennie Young has stated that followers of the Burned Haystack Method use it to, "narrow the field."[2]

Origins

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The New York Times Magazine reported on the Burned Haystack Dating Method in their 2024 issue about online dating after the age of fifty.[4]

Book

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A non-fiction book version of the method written by Young is set to be published by HarperCollins in April 2026, entitled Burn the Haystack: Decode Dating, Torch the Duds, and Make Room for Men Who Matter.[5]

References

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  1. ^ a b Young, Jennie (August 29, 2023). "Online Dating Was Hell. Then I Tried 1 Thing That Turned Out To Be A Total Game Changer". HuffPost.
  2. ^ a b c "Block to burn: Green Bay professor sets fire to dating app expectations with popular strategy". WGBA-TV. August 7, 2024.
  3. ^ Young, Jennie (27 February 2023). "I tried an alternative way to date – and it worked". The Independent.
  4. ^ Jones, Maggie (April 15, 2024). "Online Dating After 50 Can Be Miserable. But It's Also Liberating". The New York Times Magazine.
  5. ^ "Burn the Haystack". HarperCollins. 2026.
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